This blog is about the adventures of Tim and Christy, and the places they find themselves.
Tuesday, September 29, 2009
One Year
But one year on, we're having a great time. We spent the day relaxing together, which was nice since we often don't get days off at the same time, and the times we do see each other, it is either right as we get home/eat dinner, or sometimes just before bed. So spending a day together was really, really good for us. We wanted to go out on a walk, but the weather was rainy and very windy, so we just drove over to the mall and walked around there instead. We browsed books, shopped for new glasses (for fun) and looked at the terrible (and I mean, TERRIBLE) costumes at Spencer's Gifts. We never go in there, but I wanted to look at the costumes since I knew they'd be laughable.
After a while, we got coffee and tea at the nearby Starbucks and waited for our reservation at Biaggi's, an Italian place that we'd been told about by a few people. We got our table, ordered and had a nice, leisurely dinner and talked about the things we wanted to accomplish in the next year. It's a pretty small list, but I think we'll manage it just fine.
After dinner we went home and watched some movies, then read some library books. We've also been allowing ourselves to dream a little bit. For fun we've been looking at houses online, learning what we do and don't like. We've noticed one thing for sure: we definitely look for things that most people don't think twice about. We're weird that way.
I'm excited about what the next year has to bring.
Wednesday, August 26, 2009
New Place, Weddings and Other Such Things
Our New Place is pretty awesome. It's a two bedroom place, about a room and a half bigger than our apartment in Chicago, on the third floor (no neighbors above us to stomp and scream, like we both have had problems with before). So we're still settling in, and it's been about a week. We are almost all done, and we're just gobsmacked about how much space we have. Before, we had almost none, and now we've got an excess of it. It's nice, but it makes me feel like I'll have to buy more furniture.
My cousin Jill got married to a wonderful guy last weekend, and Tim and I had the honor of coming up to see it. I'm so glad we took the time off to go, because it was an absolute blast. Before the reception and after the wedding we went for a walk down the Grand River, and while on a bridge we turned to look and suddenly we saw Jill and Jim taking pictures. Of course, being the oddballs my family are, we whistled and hollered and somehow got the attention of the photographer, and then we started waving like lunatics. I think the photographer took a few pictures of us waving at them, which I think is sweet and funny. I wonder if they'll turn out or not.
Not much other news. Just a lot of little things.
Sunday, August 9, 2009
Jobs, Driving and other Adventures
I'm really enjoying my job, which is something I'm really happy to be able to say. I work roughly 20 hours a week, and I really love it. I have some cool coworkers and I'm starting to have my own social life and social circle. This is a wonderfully good thing for me.
This week was fun for us, as we have been working harder at figuring out our lives. Tim got his learner's permit this week, so yesterday I took him out driving for the first time. I drove to an empty parking lot and parked the car, then moved to the passenger seat. I let Tim basically drive around in circles for about 20 minutes, which was all I decided he needed to just dip his feet in the pool.
In a few weeks we are flying into Grand Rapids for a wedding (which we are pretty excited about) and to have some R&R, which I think we really need. Not too much else is going on with us, as we've been trying so hard to get our lives in order. Also, hanging out with family is good too.
Will update again in a few days/weeks.
Tuesday, June 30, 2009
Update from Minnesota
We left Chicago with no jobs, no house and very few possibilities, however we've had people on the ground in the area looking for us and helping us with job leads. This has been helpful. The last week has been an absolute drain on us, and we're still recovering.
As it stands today, Tim and I are renting a room from a friend's parents for short term, meaning about a month or so until we get jobs and enough money for a deposit and such. Tim has a job interview this afternoon, so I hope he gets it. I have a good chance of getting a job at another chain bookstore in the same area. I'm handing in my application today.
The issues we're facing right now are daunting, but we are well equipped to handle them. We've been crashing on the floor of a friend's house for the past few days, and they have been legitimately surprised by our drive to Get Things Rolling and to move on and up. I don't think a lot of people really understood our decision to move here. I'll try to explain.
Graduating college in 2008 was going to be a struggle. The economy, while still not at choking point, was starting to tank pretty bad. Graduating college in Michigan in 2008, with the expectation of getting a job was impossible. I can count on one hand the number of people who had jobs starting after graduation. None of them were instate. This was one reason why we moved to Chicago. We had hoped that the Michigan Unemployment/Job Bubble stopped just short of Chicago, and that we'd get jobs. As you know, this was not the case.
So after a year of working part-time minimum wage, we had a choice, thrust upon us by the rental company. Sign a new year long lease, or get out. Since our jobs were ending in December anyway, we got out. Minnesota's unemployment rate, while still high, is actually under the national average, and there *are* help wanted signs in the windows of stores and places where people work. Now, they're not great jobs, but they're jobs.
So we're in Eden Prairie. Jobs, while not overly plentiful, offer us some more stability than what we have had in Chicago. Once we figure things out a bit more, we'll update again.
Monday, June 1, 2009
Millennium/Grant Park day
A small exhibit called "Sculpture from China" was in between the rows of trees, which was both interesting and a bit weird (My favorite was the giant red T-Rex, the weird one being a gold pig, eating a man, and another man's head being in the first man's body, trying to save him from being eaten by the pig). After we walked around the touristy part of Millennium Park, we crossed the street into Grant Park and walked through the gardens, stopping to look at a Monarch butterfly and a Red-winged blackbird who was squawking at us. It was pretty cool.
Then we crossed another street into the Green, where Barack Obama accepted the election win. Let me tell ya, that was a tiny, tiny little area. How they fit that many people into the place, is beyond me. It was kinda cool to be there though, because there weren't many tourists walking around and being kinda annoying, though we did see one or two Segway tours go through, which prompted us to sing this song.
Then we walked a bit further and saw a huge fountain, made famous in this TV Opener, and thought it was interesting and sort of funny. Once again we started singing that theme song and had quite a bit of fun. We wanted to buy ice cream but it was over $3, so we didn't. After that we decided to head home because it was getting rainy.
It was actually really good for us to spend that time together, especially because we haven't really seen each other much in the last few weeks due to very conflicting work schedules. It was very peaceful. Maybe we'll go somewhere else next week.
Sunday, April 5, 2009
A Night Out with Old Friends
We took an adventure and had fun because we haven't really done anything other than work, sleep and chill out at home, mostly because we didn't have the money. We still don't, but we wanted to live a little. We ended up at Bar Louie on Randolph, which was great because we had a one piece band try to play Men Without Hats' "The Safety Dance" on an acoustic guitar. Needless to say it was hilarious, and basically everybody in the place was either dancing or singing along. For bar music, it was pretty good.
I was the only girl in the group we met with, since they were all part of a gaming convention for WarHammer, and Jason was quite happy that I had shown up, because he had been around "geeky" men all weekend. A little later Travis and Brady arrived, and these guys are like Tim's brothers, and ever since I met them they've taken me into their group as if I was family. It felt really good to see them all again, because it had been too long since we had seen them. We laughed a lot about old things and shared stories. We also planned and schemed for Tim and I to find jobs in Minneapolis/St. Paul/St. Cloud area so that "Tim can come home."
Our jobs at the bookstore have gotten significantly worse in recent weeks, and I can't really say why, because I've thought and thought about it and can't come up with a reason. Most of my co-workers are tired of the job and being treated as poorly by management as we are getting treated. So we are actively, desperately seeking new employment due to these deteriorating conditions. My old boss Elizabeth got a better and higher paying job at another store, this time specialising in where Brides and Grooms go to make their registeries, and our new boss isn't very friendly. Most people I talked to don't like her much, and she's been here for a week or two.
I'm also excited because I'm going to Grand Rapids again in the coming weeks because of two showers and a wedding. I'm actually really excited about it, because I haven't been back in a while. So that's basically what's going on in our lives. I apologize for no new updates--there hasn't been much else going on.
Friday, February 20, 2009
Couple Hard Days and Celebrity Sightings
Let me first say that it has been an extraordinary few days.
Late last week Tim got pretty sick, so I spent a few days taking care of him and doing what I could to help him, despite the fact that there wasn't anything I could do more than what I've already done. He still isn't feeling 100%, so hopefully he'll get over it soon. He got a pretty froggy voice yesterday so I loaded him up with medicine and some aspirin to take to work. I've also been pushing fluids on him, but I don't know if that helps much. I sometimes get frustrated because I can't "fix" it since there are no real symptoms I can take care of, save general achiness.
This turned out to actually be not so bad compared to Wednesday at work. Wednesday afternoon, a co-worker died on his lunchbreak. He walked over to the food court in the mall across the street as normal, and after eating a bit of his lunch, from what I heard, he fell asleep. About an hour later, mall cops tried to wake him up, and I guess they found he had just slept away.
He was 84 years old, and worked in our store part time, manning the information desk most days. He was constantly happy and constantly smiling, excited to be there. He will leave a hole in our staff, and today I saw that the lock on his locker was open, just like he had left it the day before. It just sort of hit me then that he wouldn’t welcome me into the store anymore, and this made me sad.
Wednesday night, shortly after I heard the news of my co-worker's death, Roger Ebert came into the store to do a signing for his latest book. I thought it was pretty cool because he walked past me and smiled. I also saw him do his classic "thumbs up" to his wife and assistant, who both accompanied him. He was wearing his neck covering because of his illness, but it didn't look to be too bothersome to him. Though I think it is a terrible shame he lost such an iconic voice in film critique. I remember always watching Siskel and Ebert growing up to hear about the movies that were playing in the theatres.
I also saw Brian Dennehy the other day in the coffee shop. At first I didn't even recognize him until a co-worker pointed him out. It’s the second time I’ve seen him in our store, because he’s in Chicago doing a play. He hasn't bought anything particular from me, but I still think it's cool. That’s all the celebrities I’ve seen so far, though I missed meeting Kat Von D by about 15 minutes when I came in on Monday. One of my bosses/friends is STILL giddy about meeting her and loses his cool whenever he talks about her. He's such a sweetie when he talks about it. Most of the people I work with don't tend to get star-struck (with the Kat Von D exception) but I still think it's cool. While I don't get too starstruck (in fact, seeing Ebert made me feel happy on the inside because I respect the man), I imagine that one day I will meet someone famous and I will absolutely lose my cool.
Tim has met a few more famous people, but I don't know who they are off hand. One of my other co-workers got to check Madonna's ID a while back, because apparently her credit card wasn't signed or something. According to him, she was like "really? you really need to check this?" and he was like "yes, yes I do." Truth is, he has to check because it's store policy. Still though, it's funny that he checked Madonna's ID. Celebrities come into our store all the time because we are a pretty big/nationally known store, so that's cool. If I see anybody else, I'll let you guys know!
Friday, February 6, 2009
Wedding Pictures
I finally got our wedding album and I had quite a bit of fun looking through them again. With every picture I looked at, I couldn't help but smile and get giddy, remembering every little thing about the day. I can't help but smile even typing about it.
I am *so* thankful for our wonderful photographer Katie, who did a phenomenal job and who was just about as flexible as we were. I take great pride in the fact that she told me that she enjoyed putting our album together because we were simply one of the most laid-back couples she has had to work with. This fact alone makes it all worthwhile. I'm mostly happy that I was able to get some money into the tanking Michigan Economy and helping a local business.
I still get a flutter in my stomach sometimes when I think about how lucky I am to be married to Tim. I remember when I was in the back choir room sequestered away, I was as calm and as cool as a cucumber (at least mentally) and I didn't hear anything. It was only when the big church organ started to play when I realized it was less than five minutes until the wedding was supposed to start, and that Tim was probably walking the Moms down the aisle and seating them.
It was then, and only then, that I started to get really nervous. The lead up during that week was pretty bad (I turned into the Bridezilla I promised myself I never would...sad-making) but as soon as we got to Traverse City, as soon as I was there and things were falling into place, I relaxed and was ready to get the show on the road. Walking down the aisle looking at him, and looking up at my dad, I was just so happy.
It's not quite five months into the marriage, and like any newlywed, I am still in awe of the things that I am learning both about me and my husband. Life is not easy, by any means, nor is keeping cool when it seems like so much is stacked up against us. But I couldn't ask for anything more than the life I have now. He makes me happier than I have been in several years, and that's a pretty big deal, especially because the months leading up to the wedding I hardly saw him (In the 9 months leading up to the wedding, I saw him maybe for about a month total. Other than that, we didn't see each other and talked on the phone.) and I missed him terribly.
All this stuff was brought up just by looking at photos.
Just for a taste,
here are two of my favorites.
Sunday, January 18, 2009
Winter Blues
This past week we got a huge blast of arctic air and our temperatures plummeted between -2 and -51, depending on the windchill. On Thursday when I woke up it was -20 (not including windchill) and I had to cover all my skin or risk getting frostbite in the five minute walk to the train platform before getting under the heat lamps. You know it is bad when, walking home eight hours later, the temperature rose to -7 (not including windchill) and I think to myself "Oh, it's actually not that cold!" Tim and I have a favorite webcomic that we read everyday called XKCD. This past week we have been between "F**********k" and "Spit goes Clink" on this scale: XKCD comic: Converting to Metric .
I've learned that Tim and I can live with the cold air as long as it isn't windy. Chicago is great because the streets are often built on a grid, going North/South and East/West. This is a good thing when the winds are going one direction, and you are travelling/walking in another. The buildings block out some of the wind and you get this lovely buffer of cold (but not blowy) air. Unfortunately for me, I often seem to be travelling in the same direction as the wind is blowing, so I freeze. The apartment is warm, but not really warm enough for me. Our radiators work, but I can't feel the heat coming from them. It's about 60-65 degrees in our apartment but even then, we have to wear socks and sweatshirts and have blankets on us in order to feel warm enough and comfortable enough to move around without being cold. Our apartment is on the second floor (thank goodness!) because the ground floor has terrible drafts that make my hands turn icy when doing the laundry for more than two minutes.
I think I'm ready for the air to heat up just a little bit. Wind I can deal with, as long as it is above 20 degrees Fahrenheit. It was 14 degrees yesterday and I was really happy, because it was warm enough to snow. It was "not that cold," and I felt totally ridiculous for saying it. Perhaps it will warm up a little soon. If we stay in the high 20s or low 30s, I'll be happy. We will see what happens over the next month or so.
Friday, January 2, 2009
New Year Adventures
I was getting frustrated because Kathy Griffin really annoys me, and we were watching CNN because both of us like Anderson Cooper quite a bit. So after that, we went to bed and slept for several hours. It was very relaxing. We got up at around 9:30 the next day and met our friend Glenn (one of our groomsmen), his girlfriend and our friend Chevalia. We hopped a Metra train to Naperville, and we went to a little hole in the wall place for lunch (had the trains been running, Glenn and Chevalia would have watched those) and to watch the Outdoor Hockey game at Wrigley field between Detroit Redwings and the Chicago Blackhawks.
We were not the only ones there watching the game, and the Chicagoans were getting really angry about the Blackhawks losing. However, I was scared because our Michigander visitors were totally rooting for the Redwings, and not being as quiet as I would have liked. The train ride was really fun because we got to ride a double-decker and we just whooped it up the whole way there and back. When we got back to Chicago they had to get on their Amtrak to Grand Rapids so we said our goodbyes and we took the "L" home.
Tim and I caught some fans at the Addison stop but we managed to steer clear of it. A few hours later our friend Ted arrived from a flight from Tokyo. He's been over there since August working with the JET program. So we spent the evening hanging out and eating popcorn. For Christmas, Tim and I received a hot air popcorn popper from Gigi, and we have used it every day since Christmas. We are still learning how exactly to best mimic Grandpa Graff's famous popcorn recipe, and we're getting close. Still though, there is something about Grandpa Graff's popcorn that just tastes better.
So after catching up on some sleep, I took Ted to Union station and told him to call if he wanted to take public transport to O'Hare instead of flying from Grand Rapids. I also learned a bit more about how the lines interact. I learned today how thankful I am that the Pink line goes clockwise around the Loop as opposed to the Brown line (which goes counter-clockwise) when trying to go back to Union Station after Ted realized he forgot/lost something along the way. So we went back on the train and checked all the places we could have been. Eventually, hours after I left Ted, he called me saying he had found what was lost. I was incredibly relieved.
After saying my goodbyes to Ted, I went down to the yarn shop I like on Polk street hoping to buy more yarn for Tim's scarf, but they were fully sold out of ALL the yarn I was looking for! I was very disappointed, especially when they said it would take roughly three weeks to get more. There goes the window for getting the same Dyelots! So I came home and just finished his scarf as it was, and used the few yards I had left to make fringe.
Hopefully his scarf will be warm enough that the Chicago winds won't blow through it. I tried to take that into account when he asked me to make it, so the wool is nice and chunky, and also knit doubley thick, so there won't be any wind getting to Tim's neck! This makes me feel good since he will actually WEAR this, and it looks nice with the black hat I made him earlier since he didn't like the hat colors I had knit him earlier, back when we were just dating.
We also got a web-cam for Christmas, so once I get my brother on the phone, he can help me install it. That will be pretty cool, because then we'll be free to video chat. We are both optimistic about the job market and economy, because things are slowly, slowly starting to go into upturn. We'll keep you updated about what happens with us.